Hi Flossieteacake
Thank you so much for responding.
I have been on increased vagifem for about 3 weeks now and have started stringing coconut oil up there this week. Down there looks a bit better but I am convinced the Utrogestan is affecting my bladder and mood. I used to get pmdd which I've read can be an intolerance to progesterone, I feel so much worse in my self and with my bladder since I've been on it. I think I will stop it but carry on with the gel until I can see someone. I have managed to book an online appointment with a menopause clinic on Monday. I need to be ok for the funeral next Wednesday, well as I can be under the circumstances. The GP knows I feel like this, trying to get me on anti depressants and told me to get some counselling. Thank you for your help