Hi Hurdity
thanks for the reply. My periods were a bit erratic, sometimes I'd go for 2 months without, its possible even 3 months, but not longer I don't think. Then I'd get a period and it wouldn't stop for 6 weeks.
I started to feel like everything was changing too quickly with me, less about the periods, but overnight I saw a lot of changes, I felt like my muscles were weaker, I was exhausted, just lots of vague things. When I told the doctor that I felt like I was sinking into the chair, as if I wasn't 'firm' anymore in the legs, etc, as if I was turning to liquid, she said that can be lack of oestrogen. The feeling improved a lot with evorel sequi. I'd say it's coming back a bit and I'm feeling a bit 'harassed' again, lol, like my body isn't coping. it's a lot milder than it was and the patches are clearly still helping, I just wondered if I could improve on it as it's better but not how I was before. I know it's the change, but things like muscle weakness etc, if that can be resolved I imagine it's better than leaving it.
I didn't realise you couldn't just increase the patches though.
I have numerous things to discuss with a doctor, it's all a bit overwhelming and I'm not ready to do it all at the moment. I'd say I've got some pelvic floor issues happening, not sure what, a mild rectocele possibly, or mild prolapse. I did have the peeing while coughing thing for a few months then it disappeared, around starting vagifem, but I think even a bit before that with just the evorel patches.
Thanks for your ear on this
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