I think that shorter hair on ladies over 50 suits most better than shoulder length or longer. Otherwise: who are we trying to please? Don't mess with me, I'm menopausal and I know how to use my mood swings
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Having been several drepressed in the 1990s and lost almost 5 years to anxiety, I value every day. I never plan further than half a day ahead unless necessary. I have a loving husband and a good GP and very good dental surgeon. Sorted. DH and I do stuff together ....... we are both well thus far, unlike a couple of friends who had total joint repacements by their mid-60s. My age as I am now.
Half a day at a time? Or as my friend does, make plans for 6 months ahead for something to look forwards to?
I have never been fashion conscious as I spend so much time in the garden - so posh I don't do. I like my hair to look nice but am not particularly bothered about what I wear ....... unless DH gives me 'the look'
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I live in my head and am still 16
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but my body says otherwise. I wouldn't want to go through certain ages in my Life - would you?