Hi Sunny99 and welcome👍
I have all of your symptoms and more, only difference I am post memo, last period 2 1/2 years ago and my worst symptoms didn't surface until about 18 months ago.
I am still struggling with anxiety, aching muscles/joints, return of sore head, not pounding long lasting headaches, but short burst of stabbing pain in temples, top of head and in eyes.
Mentioned these to GP couple of months ago, he didn't seem all that concerned. These had subsided, but back in the last couple of weeks, along with increase in flushes and this week night sweats. Oh joy.
I am back on the anxiety train but trying to keep it under control.
I have increased my exercise greatly which has helped.
I hope this helps make you feel a bit better, knowing you are not alone.
I am so glad I joined this forum as it has helped me no end, just knowing I can post my concerns and get amazing help from everyone here.