Thanks for the replies, ladies. Although I can feel the edge of the damn thing with an index finger, I just can't hook a finger onto the edge of it. The top of the vagina plus ring seems to flop away out of reach when I try. I tried bearing down while in a squatting position but to no avail. I even fell over on the second attempt!
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I'll have another go, but perhaps I'll have to have it removed at the surgery when changeover time comes.
Apart from all that, it's giving good results.
Thanks again, JP x