Hi may13
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from me too.
Sorry to hear you are feeling low and miserable. Although you are now officially post-menopausal and your hormones will have stopped surging so wildly (as they do during peri-menopause when ovulation is unpredictable and hormones fluctuate to extreme levels), some women are more affected by low oestrogen than others and can be responsible for low mood in some women. Your hormones levels will still be falling - unless you experience another period which can happen even after 12 months have passed and to some extent depends on your age.
On that note you haven't said how old you are. If you are under the natural average age of menopause of 51/52 then taking HRT is strongly advised to help protect your heart and bones in the future, as well as relieving symptoms such as flushes, sweats and low mood now. Reducing sweats at night is so important so that you can get some sleep and that in itself will help with motivation.
Even if you are above this age, if you are not in any risk category - and not overweight, eat a healthy diet, do not drink too much, don't smoke and take plenty of exercise, then until the age of 60 the current view is that the benefits of HRT are thought to exceed the risks - see the information here:
https://menopausematters.co.uk/balance.phpTo me that would be the first step to take (see a doctor about HRT if you can) - so that gives you the motivation to go out and make a new life for yourself in whatever way takes your fancy - but you need to feel partially better at least to do so.
It is better to get most of your vitamins and minerals from a varied diet rich in fruit vegetables nuts etc and get out into the sun and fresh air than take lots of supplements - in addition to diet, a small amount of cod liver oil in winter will give you your Omega 3 and some extra vitamin D.
Do give it some thought (HRT) and if we can help then please ask
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Hurdity x