Everything will feel extra emotional regards mums anniversary be kind to yourself.
I was also originally diagnosed with LS , betnovate etc.
Turned out to be Vaginal atrophy and vestibuldynia , I to had to spend a small fortune as I knew my NHS diagnose was incorrect, and the use of the betnovate made it all worse as it atrophied already atrophied skin.
So I use the estring / vagifem depending how my bits are , YES oil based ready filled viles mixed with multi gyn acti gel , mix into a paste with a cotton bud and is extremely soothing.
I have been on this treadmill for 4 years , and have soureced all my own specialists as I have been very let down by some , but also one amazing NHS specialist.
For me I have had to go onto full HRT for any hope of a happy vulva/ vagina/ bladder.
So good luck with it all , harem trousers are great .