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Is there any rush to begin the HRT?
Have you thought of contacting
CRUSE, most areas have local groups run by bereaved for the bereaved. People exchange experiences with people in similar situations. Even if someone is very ill, the time of death can still be a shock and 1 needs to grieve for one-self - not as you think you ought to - it takes it's time. Try not to fight your feelings
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Browse round. Make notes. Ask. Is the Sertraline helping, if not, would a hike in dose be appropriate?