Thank you all.
Well I saw him and he said he would have no hesitation in prescribing oestrogen, he said I don't need progresterone as I have no womb etc. He recommended gel. I asked if he could do some blood tests to check if my hormones are rock bottom but he said no point. I asked how can they tell if it's depresses or menopausal depression and he said yiu can't pinpoint what is causing what but on the basis I have such extreme anxiety, depression, no libido, rashes and occasional hot flushes - it sounded like it could be oestrogen deficiency and it was worth a try, he said if it boosted my mood it was worth a try and if I noticed no difference I could stop. He's writing to my GP and I will pick up the script. He also said the cancer risk had been completely over egged and quality of life as very important.
So that's my update ladies, I'm still nervous. My husband is already getting on my nerves saying he can't wait to get his wife back etc etc - no pressure then 😡