Just listened to the replay. Not exactly the most positive 10 mins of my life.
Why oh why do some ladies insist on trying to push their unsavoury affairs, last hurrah's and now sexless lives on others.
And why does the bbc let them.
All that rubbish about "last chance saloon" and being a good forum for the menopause
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Nothing about the husband/partner she probably treated like a leper and kept out of the taboo time (in a lot of cases) !!!
So your drying out and the first thing you want is a dangerous "lover" or 3.
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Thats called mis-selling and lack of hard work in your relationship, not to mention a touch of selfish b**ch.
There are plenty of unsavoury blokes out there to show we really are just adding to a growing statistic proving we are the least reliable age for "safe" sex !!!
Totally one sided topic.
Why not get someone who is enjoying menopause, taking hrt or not and having regular fun with husband or partner to act as a foil to this nonsense.
It is not and should not be the end. Most of us will be like this for 20 to 30 year for goodness sake.
If they can have someone talking frankly on this programme in terms of "D**kpics" --- Why dont these people just logout or switchoff btw...
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Why can't they have the opposite of this "new sexless life" person and have someone who still enjoys a bloody good roll in the hay!!! or words to that effect.
Not all of us want to go to bed with a book.
As for doc saying that, she will have her drying out moment in due course
All good things come to those who havent a clue!
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