Ruthae, I've just gone back to work after a spell off since January with anxiety and depression and apart from a couple of girls who I'm friendly with in the adjacent room, not one person has asked if I am okay, how I feel etc, I work for a law firm in the employment team! Yes, they have been doing/saying all the right things but there's no heartfelt concern or empathy. I have felt so guilty about being off, am struggling to cope with the phased return at the moment and I was shaking with nerves and had a panic attack coming out the first day back. It doesn't help that a couple of the girls, one who is actually supposed to be a good friend, had been slating me on an email that I saw before I went off with stress but I haven't got the emotional stamina to confront her yet and have had to work in an atmosphere which isn't contributing to my recovery. My contract states that I am allowed 40 days off in the year after 2 years' service, which I have thankfully, but full pay is discretionary and they have paid me for which I am grateful. In total, I work 4 days a week normally but have had a total of 18 days off since January. Your firm seems to be following the Bradford Factor as Halpint says. Occ Health is good but it's still 'going through the motions' and they have to be seen to be confirming to the rules so as to avoid Tribunal claims. I used to love this job but it's changed a lot and I hate it but not sure what else to do at my age so hanging in there till I feel stronger and will look around.
Hope all goes well x