Hi Monalisasmiler
Sorry your post has got missed. We must have all been busy at once - those that reply about HRT! There are a lot of posts and new members!
Aside from the HRT type itself, if you are peri-menopausal - ie are still having periods and have not been without one for 12 months, then you should normally be given a cyclical HRT which gives a withdrawal bleed every 4 weeks, instead of a continuous combined (no bleed) one as you have been given.
The reason for this is that more erratic bleeding is often experienced when women who are not yet post-menopausal take continuous combined HRT, and this also happens in post-meno women who are prescribed conti HRT for the first time, until it settles.
HRT itself should not put on weight although some progestogens especially can cause bloating/water retention. Personally I would go to your doc and say you have been given the wrong type (unless this was deliberate?) and depending on your age and what your periods have been doing over the past year or so, I would ask for Femosotn 1/10 to start with. This has fewer side effects than Premique and the other tablet HRT types.
Side effects due to oestrogen should settle.
Here is some info on diet and weight gain:
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/diet.phphttp://www.menopausematters.co.uk/weightgain.phpHere are the HRT types for peri-menopause:
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/perimeno.phpMy weight goes up and down and I've been on HRT for more than 8 years - I have to put some effort into it though! My boobs remain slightly larger and denser than when not on HRT though.
Alternative remedies did nothing for me - well I thought they did but my body was changing anyway. Making sure your diet and lifestyle are improved though is the best thing you can do for your health at this time of life.
Hope this helps and glad you have joined us
Hurdity x