The forum does provide the opportunity to clarify your thoughts and to get feedback and advice. Because of the anonymity it is easier to be honest. I have the tendency to say I'm fine, when asked by friends, when I'm not, as I make the assumption that others do not want to hear the ins and outs of how I'm feeling. One good friend does raise her eyebrows and comment "Really? You're not are you!" On here I can be honest, without feeling I'm wingeing or imposing on people. Also some of my health issues are embarrassing.
One of the benefits of joining a small choir, where we practice in each other's houses, is that after singing, we sit and chat over tea and cake. We agree that friendship as much as the singing is so valuable. I do ask friends around for tea and cake.
We also have 'Potato Evenings'. I don't particularly enjoy cooking or want the stress of cooking or worry whether the food I serve is ok. We bake potatoes and serve accompanying bits and pieces, eg salad, prawns, cold meats, cheese, coleslaw, tinned chilli, baked beans etc. This has become so popular, as you can pick and choose what you want, easily cater for food allergies, without it being a big deal. So much fun and different friends choose different things to accompany the potatoes. Alcohol is optional. We seem to have started a trend round here. It's often just a matter of inviting friends around and not waiting for others to invite you. By not going over the top, it's comfortable.