Not sure if anyone has noticed but I really don't post that much about my mother anymore as it was just getting me down.
Things however have moved on a bit.
Not really looking for answers as there really aren't any.
Mum is now 93 and over the last five weeks has been in a lot of pain with sciatica. She wasn't walking well before but now it's simply awful.
I think the thing I need to off load over is my sisters attitude. Ok she has organised social services to come in an attempt to get a full care package. That might help a bit but I really think she should be raising the care home question. My mother is not coping and I'm not sure that extra carers are going to solve the problem.
It's so hard.....I don't want to see my mother in a home but I'm not sure how long the current situation can go on.
My mother has a dog which obviously can't go into a home with her. My sis has always said she would take the dog but now she doesn't really want to.
Mother wants the GP called again.....I won't call....there is nothing they can do.....they won't take her into hospital with sciatica, they can't give any stronger pain relief....so why call again.
I'm the bad one now for saying these things. Sis not around tomorrow so it would be down to me and I'm not doing it.
Disjointed explanation.....just needed to write it down....and get it off my chest.
I feel so sorry for her as her quality of life has gone but she is such a poor sufferer and I'm never sure it's as bad as she says.
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