HI! Does anyone know who you go to see to get help looking after somebody? My Mother has COPD (on oxygen) and cellulitis on her legs, at the moment I go over every day, even though I work full time, I do all her housework, shopping, medication, walking her dog etc, I have been doing this now since just before Christmas but it is getting too much, my other concern is that she hasn't had a shower for months because her legs are all bandaged up, I have tried to be there when the district nurse comes so I can speak to her about this but she always comes when I'm not there!
I tried asking to see the doctor but he came and did a home visit when I wasn't there so didn't get to speak to him. I contacted cinnamon trust to see if they could help with the dog at least but they said it has to be my mother who contacts them and she still hasn't, she has had the number for weeks now, I keep asking her but she doesn't do it. Is there anyone I can contact to try and get some help as I'm not sure who to turn too now. With all these peri-menopause symptoms as well life is rubbish at the moment!
When anyone asks her if she wants help she just says that's ok I have my daughter!!!!! Aaghhhhh -