Hi debq - I just wanted to welcome you. Now that you have found this forum things will be much better as many women on here will identify with how you are feeling and be able to help and support you.
You appear to have a really great GP who is listening to you and offering different types of HRT rather than just dismissing you and giving up. She is right that it can take some time to find the right HRT for each of us.
I believe that Elleste has the progesterone norethisterone which is known to cause depression, low mood and pmt type symptoms in some women. I think that utrogestan may suit you better as it is a micronised progesterone but I haven't used this myself. Someone will be along soon who can offer advice on this I'm sure.
Read through our posts and if you put Utrogestan into the search box in the blue bar top left of the screen it will bring up the relevant posts too.
In the meantime have a
Taz x