Before my first cruise I expected: crowds, queues and going stir crazy, I was wrong. We usually take family on cruises and have been a group of 9, and believe it or not we always found seats in the bar we wanted to visit or in the buffet.
If you choose a cruise with sea days (not calling in a port that day) there will be organised activities , I don't take part but husband really enjoys the lectures. I've taken my kindle every time thinking I'll sit on the balcony and read, but never open it, watching the sea drift past is so relaxing.
Ship size, for me it's bigger the better
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(and I am not sociable
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). I like having a choice of restaurants and bars. Book what size ship appeals to you, then try try try as many different sizes and companies as you can afford. You can have short 4 day cruises sailing from the uk to give you a taste of cruise ships and cruise lines.
Fjords, we went at the end of August on Celebrity Eclipse, we visited Bergen (drizzly), Stavanger (sunny intervals), Geranger, Flam and Alesund all warm and sunnny. If you visit early in the season you see the waterfalls at their best, when we went they were not so good. All the ports apart from Bergen were docked in the town/village centres where you can walk off the ship and do your own thing. In Bergen you get on a bus outside the ship and it drops you in the city center.
I have read many cruise reviews of cruises I've been on, and the people who submitted them had a totally different holiday to me, you do what you want, if you want to lie next to the pool all day do it, if you want to sit and read do it, if you want to sit in the buffet all day and eat do it, it's your holiday after all.
About bumping into people, a couple of years ago my brother in law bumped into his uncle in Corsica, he was on the same ship as us and he didn't see him on board once on a 14 night cruise
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