Thanks DG, it's just that I work full time and need to bring in the bacon , so I am worried about taking time off work, due to not being able to sleep and the exhaustion etc. I am 47 and I think I have been perimenopausal for at least a year without knowing it! I was so thrilled at the surge of energy and felt more calm initially and then the despair and panic when it all went pear shaped was overwhelming .Partly because of the progesterone I'm sure! I had the merina coil fitted 4 years age , but my limbs swelled up like an elephant( very attractive ) and I had to have it removed , that's progesterone , so maybe I am sensitive to it. I need a season ticket to my GP at the moment! DEEP joy. pmintyx