I decorated the tree yesterday, but could not be bothered to do all the other christmas stuff I usually put up - I did not feel excited at all...............what is wrong with me
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even my hubby looked surprised when I said I had had enough and the others could wait!
I also spoke with my aunt yesterday and we had a conversation about pressies, I told her to please not bother with my family as we really don;t need anything and the pressies last year I did not use! She was saying she was struggling this year so when I told her not to bother with us, she was so appreciative! To be honest I only see her a couple of times a year and to be honest, I cannot stand my uncle, he is so rude, that when we go round, he can never be bothered to speak to you, so I am happy that is a couple of pressies off the xmas list
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I find christmas is getting far too stressful and demanding and I am starting to do what I want to do and not what others want me to do - it feels soooooooo much more comfortable
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