kittydaydream, it doesn't matter what the dose is - what matters is whether you are absorbing it and what your serum estradiol levels are. Have you had bloods done? That would be the first thing to do. If you still have periods, get the bloods done during your period because it's when your own estrogen will be lowest so you will see what you are getting from the HRT better.
I was on 12 pumps of gel, where 4 pumps is the max licensed dose - and my serum estradiol was 328pmol That might have been enough for some people but often during peri we need higher levels to control symptoms, between 450-650pmol. I've now been switched to Sandrena to see if I can absorb that better without ridiculous amounts. I might need oral if not...