Oh the poor soul. How utterly traumatic for him
Looking back I went without a lot but never really noticed because it was all I ever knew. I remember having a massive growth spurt one school year, but wasn't allowed a new uniform so had to make do with too small clothes for a few months. From 15 I worked and saved to buy all non-school clothing as my mother refused to buy me anything that wasn't absolutely essential.
I also went without all of the Christmas presents I actually wanted as they were deemed "too masculine", so was given dolls instead. I just befriended local boys and played with their toys
I would have loved a better education but my mother wouldn't allow it