Hi CLKD,
Thank you for your reply, my mum does have a carer go in every morning for 30 minutes to help her get washed and dressed and our st.giles nurse visits regularly but I do there shopping and walk the dog , I’m mainly emotional support to my dad, mum is coping really well and she’s very positive considering her diagnosis, but my poor dad is struggling to accept it, it helps him when I’m there physically to support him just so he can talk and get things off his chest.
I guess I can do home delivery for shopping, and I will have to do phone calls for a while, I also want to spend as much time as possible with my mum.
Thanks for your good advice, I will just have to rest up and hope it passes soon.