Sorry to hear you’re suffering - I had the same, constant bladder issues and cystitis, even had a camera in the bladder to check what it was - nothing!
But then I sat down with a lovely practice nurse who was really clued up on the menopause, and said she’d been doing research, and felt that it was the VA that was causing such dryness and irritation, it was then causing irritation to the bladder.
She prescribed Vagifem And although it’s not a miracle cure for me, combined with the YES Vaginal Moisturiser, I find I’ve not had any bladder issues since then 🤞
I did try other moisturisers, but I just found they sting and burn, so it’s definitely worth thinking about a moisturiser of some sort to try and ease the discomfort.
Obviously, if you have UTI’s they’ll need treating, but it’s worth alleviating the dryness!