Hia,
Nothing taboo about sex so don't worry about that.
So, to answer your question with another question...What is normal? We are all different.
Menopause can cause a lower desire for sex in some.
That said you are treating your menopause with a patch, so I guess that may be giving you a rocket-boosted sex drive.
I suggest 3 things,
1, Get some new sexy lingerie and enjoy it.
2, Get a vibrator so you can sort yourself out if it's
too much for your husband,(and tell him you're getting it, that may peek his interest)nudge nudge wink wink!
So the 3rd way is... combine all three
lingerie,
sex toy,
him
What do you think!?...
TD