Hiya
Yes that was suggested to me too and absolutely not, those drugs are brutal! If you can go privately there are some good options (I'd suggest a proper consultant gynae not Newsom who are all GPs (charging consultant prices!!)). I was in Nick Pannay's clinic on Harley St - Hormone Health - but now with the same gynae in a different clinic just for ease, but I'm sure if you ask on here you'll get some good suggestions. Sometimes if you can afford to go private for one or two appts, they will write to the Gp and GP will then prescribe. Most GPs just want the buck to stop somewhere else. You can - or could - also ask to be referred where you want NHS. I insisted on Chelwest for Polyp removal as I'd researched which doctor I wanted, saw him privately, he wrote to GP and asked him to refer me NHS.
And yes the best that modern medicine has to offer is 'trial and error' unfortunately ... and I've been through the wringer on that. I started on utro at very low doses, eked out across second half of cycle, and I can now manage 14 doses of 100 vaginally but took a long time to get there. I had several failed attempts with the pill and bottled out of the coil as I just hated the thought of having to get it removed if all the wheels fell off, and was worried about bleeding. I was badgered and badgered and badgered to get a Mirena, but refused.
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