Hi SamjW
For me personally, I could never seem to hit it off with patches, however I know lots and lots of women swear by them and they're easier you just slap them on and change twice a week, but I just didn't seem, I don't know to absorb them or I was always touching them, concerned they had fallen off. However I have heard estradot patches are the best.
I use oestrogel and I much prefer the daily application of gel, it's easier to adjust, sure it is a bit of a pain (especially in winter) having to wait for the gel to dry, but if you absorb and if it's easing your symptoms then I can cope with that.
It really is all down to personal choice and which you absorb the better. Maybe try the estradot patches and if they don't suit try the gel. I do think with estradot patches supply can be a bit iffy at times xx