I really feel for you, you end up feeling silly when you are dismissed and yes, like there is something else wrong.
Worrying that Drs still say this when you are in their 'accepted' age bracket for peri/meno.
I just never considered all this stuff in my 30s, my children are getting older and more independent, I hit 40 and then this has floored me and my confidence!
Thanks for the luck x