Hi, I take fluoxetine already and hrt at the same dose as you, although it's Estradot and utrogestan I get given atm, it was Evorel conti at the start.
So I heard venlafaxine can help hot flushes (fluoxetine always made me overheat at any age) and I asked my GP in May could I switch from fluoxetine to venlafaxine. Her response was no, it only had a very minor effect for a few people, it wasn't worth switching them for my hot flushes and night sweats which still happen all the time.
So I'm interested in what you say, your pharmacist has read it differently from my GP for sure!
In general there is shockingly little research into either menopause or hrt so I think a lot of the time they make it up to suit their own ideas. I definitely wouldn't take a SSRI if my mind didn't need a nudge.
If I was only dealing with physical symptoms, I wouldn't rock the boat regarding my mental health because that can suffer too in menopause.
I think the normal response to Evorel Conti not working as well after some time has elapsed is to add in a bit more, either an additional patch or an oestrogen gel at low dose to add on to what you are taking now.
I can't get more than a medium dose either btw, still on 50mg patch after 17 months and it still isn't working well, but I guess it's better than nothing.