Katherine In fact my last smear was just plain awful, so much so I went back to my gp because it had hurt so much. One hospital appt later to investigate and VA was diagnosed. And it took me 3 years to realise VS and all the following symptoms were actually me in perimenopause!! . Think I learned everything I know from this forum.
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But using Ovestin each night and YES has really helped for that, so not dreading next smear so much. The hospital endorsement were able tonite lubricant to make me comfortable.
And I had heard many horror stories about coil fitting. I hit the jackpot with my two nurses. They were so kind, explained everything, let me see a ' dummy ' coil before and showed me each step of the way, let me ask any question, and took their time. It wasn't pleasant of course, tolerable is best description. I had taken painkillers beforehand, and rested for a couple of hours after with some cramping pain. Felt strangely tired. Next day I was fine. I had spotting and light bleeds on and off for about 3 months, and a couple of times when I upped my hrt I had light spotting. But the relief at last of no periods.
I know some really do not get on with the mirena but I do feel it is the right method for me. As we all know there can be a huge amount of trial and error with hrt.
Do feel free to message me with any questions or you like. I am totally honest and upfront with anything that may help someone on here
Take care x