Your GP needs to do his/her homework and read the NICE guidelines. I once had a GP tell me I'd be seeing the oncologist very soon if I stayed on HRT!!!!!!!!
Look up the NICE guide lines up - they may be on this site somewhere - print the relevant stuff off and take it to the next GP appointment (if you can get one) and ask for a referral to either a menopause clinic or a gynaecologist. Antidepressants have some nasty side effects and I believe can even hasten dementia in some cases.
HRT is essentially a supplement with many benefits including : lower risk of bowel cancer, reduces the onset of heart disease, protects bone density, joints and muscles, helps to maintain the immune system and that's not counting maintenance of good sleep, energy, cognitive abilities etc. The benefits far out way the risks. There is a tiny increased risk of breast cancer if on HRT beyond the age of 60 for some women but alcohol and smoking give a much higher risk of breast cancer.
I personally believe doctors should be reported for negligence if they don't give appropriate treatment for menopause symptoms. They swear to 'do no harm'. Dishing out antidepressants instead of HRT is actively going against NICE guidelines. The only exception is if a women has a close family relative who has had breast cancer and even then it needs to have been oestrogen related breast cancer. Not all breast cancer is oestrogen related, in fact, women who have had a hysterectomy have a reduced risk of BC if using oestrogen and there are some forms of BC that are now treated with oestrogen.
I could go on and on with my anger over the poor treatment so many women receive. My rant over.....for now......... DG x