Hi ladies,
Is can’t be bothered ness /lack of motivation a menopause thing or a depression thing or both please?
I’m pretty sure I’m post menopausal, 54 but with Mirena so no bleeds. I’ve been on HRT (private treatment so it’s not a typical dose etc - not really sure if it’s working or worth the expense tbh) and not too many physical symptoms but complete lack oomph, motivation, mojo and am really struggling at the moment. I had a child late, at 40, so I need to find a better way to cope and keep going but I can’t help wondering if this flat, withdrawn, can’t be bothered with anyone/thing feeling is actually nature’s way and it’s part of ageing. It’s like being slowly cancelled….🙈
I used to be a doer and could force myself to tackle most things now I just can’t seem to. It doesn’t help that most of the things I need to be doing are boring domestic chores but as another poster on here said ‘someone still needs to do the dishes’!
Thanks everyone.