Hi Katherine,
I use unscented baby wipes to clean with. Am religious not to use anything perfumed either, and showers not baths. Then I use unscented Sanex which seems ok for me.
As for Sylk,should it be available again soon, I use it as an external moisturizers ,around vulva as Ovestin on outer parts stings a little for me. But I also use Sylk in the -ahem- bedroom department too as I prefer the feel from other lubricants, and it is far kinder on my skin,externally and internally. Without putting anyone off their lunch, a dab inside myself, and a playful dab or two on husband\toys. Sorry for that, but let's be honest.
Sorry if that's a bit much, but with everything else we deal with, bedroom stuff when we're up for it, needs to be as comfy and enjoyable as possible. 😍