Oh don't get me started on booking holidays
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. I'm OK if I do spontaneous things, on Sunday we went to an antique fair with plenty of space even though busy - then onto a large Country Fair, again busy but I was absolutely fine. 1 of the best days ever!
But: we have friends in Devon - if I even think about going to visit
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. I have over the years learnt my limitations, kind of.
How badly are you affected? In the 1990s I had 3 months of not being able to leave the house, not even into my garden
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. Better now.