Thanks both
I was moaning with a couple of friends yesterday that this seems to be the most common question for women - whacky bleeding - and there's virtually nil advice, even the utro insert leaflet doesn't tell you what to do, it's frustrating! I suspect I'm anovulatory also, which I think means oestrogen can keep rising which might explain the heaviness. No idea!
The trouble with hanging on til day 14 is the histaminey jitters in the days 5 - 12 (oestrogen rising I assume). Unfortunately tried several pills, but they really don't suit me. Coil, I'm extremely wary as a) I haven't had kids and no one will do pain relief and had a failed insertion in my twenties (I screamed the clinic down!) and b) they can make bleeding far worse, and given my luck (and the incompetence of my GP practice) I fear I'd be one of the unlucky ones and then stuck with it. I like the control of being able to adjust my own meds.
I suspect covid threw more of a spanner in the works than I realised but I'm 50 now so I guess things are going to change. I'm properly bleeding like a period, so unsure what to do but guessing just stick to the plan is probably the best idea, give it time to settle.
Flossie, that's an alternative I'm considering, doing utro like the contraceptive pill like you are, with a short withdrawal of three days - sort of adapted continuous. I think I'm still at the stage where there's a cycle of sorts going on, my body does seem happier with the rythmn of a bleed, I just wish it'd stick to the same rythmn!
Thanks both, glad to know it's not just me!
Oh and I take super duper haem iron I import from America - Iron Repair - 10x more absorbable and no side effects. I'm an emergency iron infusion anaemic, very keen not to go back there!
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