I really am sorry. Perhaps it would help to talk to the practice manager. An examination is pointless because you can not always see signs.
She also said in her experience those suffering VA are never 💯 comfortable and just have to manage the symptoms as best as possible and prevent it getting any worse. Just bloody fed up of the whole thing now. x
Ignorant, uneducated springs to mind here, making a situation a whole lot more complicated when there is absolutely no need.
My wonderful GP hasn't seen me since she sorted my VA symptoms out on the first visit, no fuss, no hassle, she gave me the treatments, the armour, needed to combat Vaginal Atrophy. So I would say to your GP she is talking nonsense, I am very comfortable now!