Thank you everybody, I really do appreciate it all. I am really down and upset over my prolapse, I am desperate for it not to worsen and come out of my vagina.
I don't have a consultant, I did go see someone who confirmed my prolapse and said I can have a ring pessary or surgery (my GP referred me). I didn't want either at that time, as the bulge feeling comes and goes, so I was discharged. Who do you see about help with prolapse and all the estrogen options available to try? I'm in the UK.
Sheila99 - I will look into that, thank you.
HellsBells - thank you, why have you stopped using Vagifem?
Mixi - you think Magnesium Citrate helps with your rectocele - do you mean it feels more lifted? I am looking into starting Magnesium [hydroxide] for the urge, so if it helps with lift also, that would be great! Are you still using Vagifem?
Dierdre - that's really good to hear. Which type(s) of prolapse did you have, is it like a stage 1 now? Do you still take Vagifem?
Taz2 - thank you, you say I can take hrt/estrogen forever, but there's no conclusive evidence that it is safe to do so, nor any evidence that it isn't (not that I know of anyway). Can I ask please, what is full HRT? (I've seen full HRT mentioned a few times on here, but don't know what is classed as full HRT).
You're also spot on there, in that we are not told things and so many of us could have prevented these problems if we had known (it not only would help us ladies, but would help the health services too, they will save £1000s and 1000s hours in appointments, etc). Glad to hear that Vagifem shouldn't cause bleeding
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