Hello Sprush1
I really relate to how you feel. I have osteopenia, diagnosed last year and am really worried as I was in an accident as a passenger and hurt my neck and then was hit by a car whilst parked up 6 months later and that shunt has caused no end of problems with my spine. I am currently on crutches with another episode with my back. I feel vulnerable and fragile too. I am 60. My son who is 30 is scared to move out and leave me living alone because he sees this but I feel so guilty about it. My daughter doesn't live here now but she worries a lot too. I didn't expect to be a burden at this age.
I am always reading up to find answers and to stay positive, trying to feel grateful that we have options and access to information, we can get through this. Sharing information and speaking to others is so helpful.
I am sure I read somewhere that estrogen is a treatment for improving bone density, I read a lot of clinical papers as I trust them more than articles. Will see if I can find it.