Ayesha referred me back to this thread. I can't believe the problems vaginas cause. As they're crucial to reproduction of the human race, I don't understand why because it's not just older women. My problems were only noticed with sex, discharge from the irritation, UTIs, when I'm not sexually active, I don't seem to get symptoms. My GP says I will get more UTIs though if I discontinue the estrogen. I did notice the change in my vulva more. Seemed to be wasting. I was only using twice a week vagifem but am trying alternate nights plus ovestin externally every night, sometimes in the morning too because i had an examination and as someone has said, the GP unintentionally made me feel really worried with the way she was describing my bits below and i did feel like a dried up old woman. After a month I can't say I've noticed any difference except the tissues are softer but its too soon but by applying ovestin I'm at least aware of what is there because apart from washing, I don't suppose we feel about too much down there. Going back in time, some of us wouldn't even still be alive let alone interested in a sex life so women's reproductive organs probably weren't designed to last and they wouldn'teven have experienced this. At my age, 65, my gran was an old woman. With longer lives, mother nature needs to evolve women's bits to keep in step. The rest of my body is better than some 40 year olds I know, it's my private parts that are letting the team down. I'm not sure how long I should continue with the frequency of application but I guess its trial and error.