Hello,
I’m new here and lurked, never posted.
I had a total hysterectomy, with ovaries gone also, in January of this year and in full-blown surgical menopause.
It’s been a rollercoaster 11 months. In May this year I lost two stone after finally finding a little part of me again and now I have crashed.
I was given Sandrena leaving hospital, didn’t work, then given Evorel along with Utrogestan. It was upped and upped until it also stopped working when my GP refused to up it from 100, back in early November. She then changed it to two sprays of Lenzetto daily. That didn’t work and I paid to see a menopause specialist last week. He prescribed Elleste Solo tablets and Testogel as he suspects I am not absorbing transdermally. I know I have to wait a month before applying the Testogel.
I started on Monday of this week and I’m still just on the floor. I’m so irritated with no life in me. I have two dogs who are just being dogs but I’m tearing my hair out with them. My husband doesn’t know how to help me and my three kids have their own lives now (they are late teens and early 20’s).
I don’t go anywhere, I’ve become a recluse and don’t even want to see people. I’m hyper-sensitive and terrified of every ache and pain I have, thinking I’m dying. I see everyone on Facebook going to Christmas parties and I’m at home in my pyjamas eating crap with my thinning hair and fat ass.
I’m so desperate, I don’t know what to do. I want to feel alive again and I truly don’t believe I ever will.
Can someone please tell me it’ll all be okay xx