Hi Nik,
I think we all start our HRT journeys at different times and. . . We all have different GPs with varying levels of knowledge about the Menopause !!
I didn't get onto an HRT regime that suited me until age 54 ,intact I was a month off 55 !!!!
This was pure luck as I was seeing a female Gynae for another problem and she sorted it out for me. She told me I could stop at 60 if I wanted but I could also carry on if it made me feel better. That specialist will never be aware how much she changed my life for the better !
I have a mirena coil for progesterone( as couldn't tolerate patches/ utrogesten )and estrogel.
It's not a total cure for other health issues as I still get periods of anxiety but I think for me being stuck between Adult kids and ageing parents it's more to do with where I am in life !
I think for you just be reassured its ok to be where you are for now with oestrogen treatment and another GP will have another opinion. One day at a time is all.you can do otherwise it creates its own anxiety x