Hi , I’m not sure why I’m posting this, but not sure where to turn, after 35 years of marriage I know I should end it, I’m so scared , it’s the biggest decision I will ever make. In a nutshell my hubby has a vile streak but we’ve always come out the other end and can be very happy again. Since he had Pancreatic cancer over 2 years ago which incidentally I saved his life as he was hiding it he seems to go through fazes of hating me for it, that may sound bizarre but he has definitely changed since then , not for the good. He is a very bitter and angry man which I can’t understand and get my head round. I don’t deserve any of his nastiness , I have always been there for him but now realise that is part of the problem . Basically I’m looking for some positive comments from ladies who have had the courage to leave as deep down I know it’s the right thing to do.