Ok so I said I'd update so here it is.
tl:dr background
Last year estradiol reading plummetted to 90 so you can imagine the symptoms that brought on.
We tried;
1. Bumping the patch up to 100, then 150. This got the reading up to 280 but triggered polyps and bleeding
2. Polyp removed in november, so we tried again with combination of patches and oestrogel, this time with mirena in situ but the bleeding came back in feb. I was then put on mirtazapine as i hadn't slept since this started and was on my knees and my mother had died in the meantime and it was getting all too much
3. We tried norethisterone with the coil and this time we went for oestrogel - symptoms did not improve. Tried lenzetto - oestradiol reading dipped to 230, bleeding came back, second polyp was very fast growing and removed in june
4. Meno specialist and obgyn (who was dealing with the bleeding) decided last throw of the dice was an implant. It took ages to get hold of one and I was still on a 100 patch+mirtazapine to keep me ticking over but I was worried a third polyp would fire up. ALso took ages to get an appt with the meno specialist who, even though she's private, runs out of appointments like you wouldn't believe and it's got more noticeable over the past 6 months or so. ANYWAY, finally got the implant on August 18th.
WITH IMPLANT IN
Kept a 50mcg patch on for a week on advice of meno doc. Finally taking it off and going "commando" was scary!
Started bleeding two weeks later and was howling with despair. Meno doc said to sit tight as it could just be hormonal high jinks as these things happen
Generally felt wretched for 2-3 weeks, hand tremors, hot flushes, you guys know the score.
Bleeding stopped after 5 days and HAS NOT COME BACK, so she was right
Took about 4 weeks to feel human. Hot flushes sudddenly stopped. Everything else calmed down a bit.
Had my new estradiol results this week and it's shot up to 386 which is a RESULT!
There are occasional smears of old blood, very, very scant, almost unnoticeable and nothing like before. I may just need to have 6 monthly scans but I'm seeing the obgyn tomorrow for a progress check and will see what she says.
Meno doc also did a check on the general health of my bits and bobs and said it's all looking a lot better than it was a few months ago so that's lovely.
However, because of the weight gain I decided to wean myself off mirtazapine so my sleep has wobbled a bit, but is way, way better than it was last year without the mirt, so I'm going to thank the increased oestrogen level for that. It's also caused an increase in anxiety and I've noticed my palpitations have increased but I was anxious before the menopause and think that's just me. I'm still a bit trembly but again - I'm anxious anyway and the mirt withdrawal symptoms are pants so it might be that. The only thing I'm worried about at the moment is the hand tremor but I'm going to sit tight on that for another few months before going to the doc.
So for non absorbers like me, it might be worth a go. It is a pain in the neck to a certain extent, and god knows what will happen in a few months when it starts to wear off and symptoms come back because it takes a few weeks to get things back in shape, but considering the fact that the implant is 50mcg and is giving me more benefit than a patch of 150mcg, or 5 pumps of lenzetto, or 4 pumps of oestrogel, all of which I tried, it might be worth just saying "sod it, what have I got to lose?"