I wouldn't recommend changing. At least on Zoely you are on body identical estrogen, which will be protecting your bones from osteoporosis, and your mind from dementia, heart from heart disease etc etc - Yasmin is totally synthetic and won't have the same health benefits.
If you wanted to try another, Qlaira is the only other pill with body identical estrogen in it.
But really, it is pretty normal to get irritated and want to yell at people to shut up. I feel like sometimes there is 'emotional' stuff being blamed on pills when it is either just a normal part of life or due to difficulties in life itself making us feel certain things, or because we are scared about what's happening to us and this comes out as anger - and so on. Society indoctrinates women to be uncomplaining, passive, polite etc etc etc and so some women feel like failures or like something is wrong if they are not naturally all of that. The problem isn't with those women, it's with society.
Of course there is then a whole level that is hormonal, when people don't feel like themselves. But I think that, from the extremity of it, it's clear when that is happening...
