There’s nothing to say you can’t be prescribed it at all. That’s very strange to say when it’s not a thing! If she had said, look the risks, that are small, are increased a lot if you are also overweight or obese, then that’s true and fine to say. She may even say, I’m concerned to prescribe it because of it, but she can’t make up a rule that doesn’t exist. How long have you been on HRT? The focus should be on why symptoms are returning . Are you on testosterone? Did they offer you some help with weight loss?