Hi ladies,
I've been off sick with work stress for three months. I somehow managed to get a new job starting in just over two weeks. Hopefully it will be less stress but the stress of starting afresh and meeting new people feels overwhelming. I'm also sad because I loved my job. I just hit a wall having to split myself into too many different people and take on more managerial duties as well as fill in the gaps in staffing (social care) all with no senior management support.
Three months later I have a way out but my confidence is at rock bottom. The mirena has finally settled my bleeds (I'm 57) but peri symptoms are at full tilt with flushes, anxiety, low mood, disturbed sleep, horrendous adrenaline surges, panic attacks. Hubby is supportive, has every confidence in me, he says, that I'm bound to be nervous about a new job, but I should be excited because I'm brilliant. I don't think it occurs to him that after five years of total dedication and high performance in a job I loved, I suddenly stopped going in, never to return. And this new job is no magic wand.
Doctor has written a script for oestrogel to retry now that my lining is settled, but I haven't started. I don't know how to navigate this. I have fantasies about running away, but I love my husband and family, I want to be here and nowhere else.
I'm doing yoga, meditating, all the self care I can to help myself. I can't even shop without a panic attack, how on earth can I start a new job?
Can anyone relate or advise?
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