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[BlueBird]

Hello BlueBird. I am 39 and in my second year of perimenopause. It is frustrating when DR's say people are too young. I can understand why you are feeling low. I think not having a supportive GP makes this so much harder. With the symptoms you have I would think HRT could really help but I know not everybody wants to try that.

I think it is vital you get treatment for the vaginal atrophy as it is such an awful thing to have. You could try vagifem or ovestin. It is terrible the way the GPs are being so dismissive of HRT and your concerns. If it is possible then maybe you could change to another practice.

As your GPs say you are perimenopausal, I am confused as to why they are not prescribing HRT. I often misread information and get confused so I apologise if I have misunderstood.

Oh, I'm so sorry I missed your comment and so lovely too! Thank you! Y'all are making me feel a lot better, seriously. None of my gfs are going through this which sure would be handy! ha. So, yes, thank you!

I'm not too familiar with vaginal atrophy, is there's lots of info here about it? I just search for the term and read through everyone's comments, right? I'm just getting the hang of it here. I've read horror stories about vaginal mesh, my goodness, that sounds truly awful. So if it's something I need to learn to avoid if possible or what can be done, I'm ready to learn - thank you for highlighting this as something I should be aware of.

I'm told (now, like the day after I posted this) that HRT isn't something I can have, otherwise I'd be all over it! ) In truth my GP didn't even offer it when they suspected menopause. I've had to keep pushing.

Overall though, I came here today feeling utterly wrecked, angry and feeling quite despondent. Now, not so much! ) I credit you and the other users for this, the kindness and consideration has been a real uplift. Thank you! Like I said to the others, I hope I can return the kindness and knowledge you've afforded me. xx

Keeping my chin up, otherwise I'll get a turkey neck to match my sagging breasts and possibly soon to be atrophied vagina! ha. Sorry! Terrible, I know!

Lots of love and I hope your Sunday is a good one!x

[Flossieteacake]

Hello BlueBird. I am 39 and in my second year of perimenopause. It is frustrating when DR's say people are too young. I can understand why you are feeling low. I think not having a supportive GP makes this so much harder. With the symptoms you have I would think HRT could really help but I know not everybody wants to try that.

I think it is vital you get treatment for the vaginal atrophy as it is such an awful thing to have. You could try vagifem or ovestin. It is terrible the way the GPs are being so dismissive of HRT and your concerns. If it is possible then maybe you could change to another practice.

As your GPs say you are perimenopausal, I am confused as to why they are not prescribing HRT. I often misread information and get confused so I apologise if I have misunderstood.

Oh, I'm so sorry I missed your comment and so lovely too! Thank you! Y'all are making me feel a lot better, seriously. None of my gfs are going through this which sure would be handy! ha. So, yes, thank you!

I'm not too familiar with vaginal atrophy, is there's lots of info here about it? I just search for the term and read through everyone's comments, right? I'm just getting the hang of it here. I've read horror stories about vaginal mesh, my goodness, that sounds truly awful. So if it's something I need to learn to avoid if possible or what can be done, I'm ready to learn - thank you for highlighting this as something I should be aware of.

I'm told (now, like the day after I posted this) that HRT isn't something I can have, otherwise I'd be all over it! ) In truth my GP didn't even offer it when they suspected menopause. I've had to keep pushing.

Overall though, I came here today feeling utterly wrecked, angry and feeling quite despondent. Now, not so much! ) I credit you and the other users for this, the kindness and consideration has been a real uplift. Thank you! Like I said to the others, I hope I can return the kindness and knowledge you've afforded me. xx

Keeping my chin up, otherwise I'll get a turkey neck to match my sagging breasts and possibly soon to be atrophied vagina! ha. Sorry! Terrible, I know!

Lots of love and I hope your Sunday is a good one!x

Aww, thank you for your sweet message. I too had not heard of vaginal atrophy until I saw it on this forum. I can understand why you felt angry and despondent. It is horrible to not understand what is happening to us and why we are feeling so poorly. I now understand HRT is not an option for you.

It takes time to become used to using a forum so be patient with yourself. You can click on a forum such as 'menopause' and then put something into the search bar. If you have any trouble with finding anything then you can always ask.

I hope you have a lovely day too. 

[CLKD]

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There is no reason that I can see why you can't use appropriate vaginal atrophy treatments. Where does your GP get his/her ideas that you 'can't have' treatments that should be decided by a Consultant!

Quality of Life mayB?

[CLKD]

Thinking about this - I would ask your GP for a referral to a menopause clinic.  Not a gynaecologist but a dedicated Consultant who deals with menopause on a daily basis.

The other option is to send a single question to Dr Currie - details on the Forum, there is a charge for each.  Or get a referral to Dr Newson near Stratford upon Avon.  Another Dr dedicated to menopause.

[BlueBird]

Which thread would you like to continue with 

There is no reason that I can see why you can't use appropriate vaginal atrophy treatments. Where does your GP get his/her ideas that you 'can't have' treatments that should be decided by a Consultant!

Quality of Life mayB?

Hi CLKD - I'm not sure what you mean 'which thread', are you asking if I'd like to specifically ask questions about specific issues? I have asked in another thread about gastritis. Are you a moderator here? Maybe I've missed something, that you can advise me on?

Re not being able to take HRT - it's complicated. My GP has said HRT isn't necessary and is dangerous to take. They also didn't offer it in the first place, I had to ask. But, I also have other health conditions. One of which I'm told by a consultant can be made worse by HRT. This I was informed of by the consultant after my GP said what they said about HRT generally.

I'm going privately to a menopause specialist. I've already booked in. I can't reply on my GP to help with this. I agree quality of life is important, which is why I'm taking it into my own hands. The menopause specialist said that she gets patients all the time experiencing exactly what I have with their GP, clearly its common enough for her to make such a statement. Sad really, GPs should have better training about menopause overall.

Hope you're well!