Flossieteacake, I'm so sorry you're also having such awful experiences as well. I hope you can be okay and you're in my thoughts. I hope Thursday's appointment is helpful and useful to you.
Thank you Sheila99, I've tried norethisterone in Evorel sequi which was profoundly bad. This was as an alternative to Utrogestan which I started off with. The private Gynae I saw had suggested Femoston, but the GPs have cautioned against this, and wanted me to try a conti patch, which was the plan, until the Oxford Meno Clinic (NHS) replied and suggested I stay on a sequi plan and that I'm looking at a hysterectomy.
Thank you Hurdity, I take utrogestan vaginally, and would bleed very lightly for 2 days every 21-24 days pre-HRT. I'm on Evorel 50 patch after starting off with the Oestrogel. The seeking of private help is to reduce the wait times. I cannot afford to keep experiencing this level of risk and trauma, and putting my partner through it as well. I've not worked for months and would dearly love to get back to work, which I miss. I'm currently on a 6-month NHS waiting list after being referred to the menopause services in my county.
Blood tests done today to check estrogen levels and with the view to introduce some testosterone into the mix. I was sensitive to the progesterone in my own cycles pre-perimenopause, struggling with mood difficulties.
I don't know if the fact that both myself and my partner are mental health clinicians leads my GP to feel that the psychological impacts are taken care of and so doesn't address them with me (which they are as best we can, but that's not the point, I'm a patient in this experience and need help). I know it can be hard to hear emotional distress, and a lot of professionals and services are feeling burned out, but it seems a number of us are being failed by some of the services we access. I find this both heartbreaking and infuriating.
Thank you all so much for your time and sharing. You're helping me, and my partner so much. We're very grateful.