Hi goingcrazy
Sorry to hear about your symptoms.
You say you are peri-menopausal - can you tell us what that means in terms of your periods and cycle - how often they are, regular/irregular, how heavy etc, how long you have been experiencing changes in your cycle - if you have?
What are the symptoms that have led you to try HRT? ALso I am wondering why you started the utrogestan after only 3 days - was this to tie in with your bleed cycle?
It's best actually not to start the progesterone straight away so that you can see how you feel on the oestrogen alone. You might be right about the Utrogestan and being petite - it could well be far too much for you althoigh it is needed to protect the womb.
Not sure about the amitriptyline? Do you have another condition for which you are taking that? Maybe not wise to increase without doc advice unless doc has said OK. I was prescribed it once for gynaecological nerve pain but had a look at the leaflet and decided not to take it!
Hurdity x