I thought I’d sailed through my menopause Kathleen, peri didn’t affect me at all, in fact I felt really well, but how wrong was I? Four years after my last period the VA hit me with a vengeance, along with painful joints, anxiety, plantar fascitis, insomnia, brain fog etc etc . I was prescribed Vagifem and later I progressed onto full hrt. ( still on the combi patches)
These did help for many years but now, ten years down the line, everything is coming back with a vengeance, along with pelvic floor problems . I’m 64 so realise some of it will be down to ageing, but the dreaded anxiety, low mood, pelvic floor issues are really getting to me and you are right, we are still on that rollercoaster ride. Issues don’t miraculously disappear unfortunately.