Hi and Welcome Lida,
I haven’t got experience of anxiety like you or like many others on here but it crippled me for about a 5 weeks and nearly retired me off at 49. That was nearly 3 months ago and I don’t have anxiety now. HRT works but needs time.
Well done on tapering Diazepam, keep going with it, you’re doing really, really well. It sounds like your GP is supporting the taper which is brilliant. Maybe you feel like the other meds aren’t working, your Doctor and Consultant know you, I would only take medication advice from them.
Suicidal thoughts, please don’t sit on your own with those feelings. Tell your docs, friends, family and remember the Samaritans and Mind helplines.
You’re still there for your kids, be kind to you, cut yourself some slack. You need time to recover/ re-set your new hormones.
Keep posting.
Victoria.x